RAMADAN DAY 15 IMPORTANCE OF A HUSBAND.

The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ asked one of the
Companion's wives: "Have you got a husband?" She
said: "Yes." He asked: "How do you treat him?" She
replied: "I spare no pains in obeying him, except what I
cannot do." The Prophet then said: "Make sure that
you obey him, because he is your Paradise or
Hellfire" (Tirmidhi)
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "If a woman dies
while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter
Paradise." (Tirmidhi)
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "If a woman
prays her five prayers, fasts her month (Ramadan),
guards her chastity, and obeys her husband (always)
she will enter Jannah." (Bukhari)
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ was asked: "Which of
women is best?" He said: “The one who makes (her
husband) happy when he looks at her, obeys him when
he tells her to do something, and does not disobey him
with regard to herself or her wealth in a way that he
dislikes.” (Nasaai)
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "If I were to
command anyone to prostrate to anything other than
Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to
their husbands.
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By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad,
no woman will fulfil her duty towards her Lord unless
she fulfils her duty towards her husband, and if he asks
her for herself when she is sitting on a saddle, she
should not refuse him." (Ibn Maajah
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*The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "It is not right
for any human being to prostrate to another; if it were
right for one human being to prostrate to another, I
would have commanded women to prostrate to their
husbands because of the great rights that they have
over them. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if a
man were covered from head to foot with weeping
sores oozing pus, and his wife were to come to him
and lick his sores (to clean them), this would not fulfil
the rights he has over her." (Ahmad)*
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "If Allah has
blessed any of you with a good wife, He has helped him
with half his deen, so he should fear Allah with the
other half." (Hakim)
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: “No woman
annoys her husband but his wife among Al-Hoor
Al-’Ayn says, ‘Do not annoy him! May Allah destroy you
(Literally ‘Kill you’)! For he is just a temporary guest
with you and soon he will leave you and join (come
tous‘.” (Ahmed, Tirmidhi, ibn Majah)
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: “There are three
whose prayers will not be accepted and they will not
ascend to heaven or even go beyond their heads: … a
woman whose husband calls her at night and she
refuses.” (Targhib wal-Tarhib)
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: “If a man calls
his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he stays angry
with her all night, the angels will curse her until
morning.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
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The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: “Any woman who
asked for a divorce for no reason, the fragrance of
Paradise is forbidden to her.” (Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood,
Ibn Maajah)
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"Whether the husband wants to discipline his wife, or
forgive her, or take another wife, or divorce her, this is
all up to him to choose. Let the woman beware of
incurring her husband’s wrath because this will lead to
Allaah’s being angry with her." - Sh. Muhammad Al-
Munajjid
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"If a Man is married with a righteous wife, he will live a
harmonious life even if he is poor" - Sh. Saleh Al-
Fawzan
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The blessings for a woman being a righteous wife and
a man having the righteous wife is pleasure in this
world and the next when we meet Allah...
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When Imam ibn Hanbal's wife passed away he said
"Wallahi I lived with her for 40 years and we didn't
argue once." He was asked how? He said "Whenever
she got upset and tried to argue, I stayed quiet. And
whenever I was upset and tried to argue she stays
quiet"
Assalamun Alaikum